naked thoughts

If you want your family to come home now...get naked! menopause...that wonderful time of life. Not only will your kids catch you naked, their friends will too! I apologize in advance for anyone that has to see me naked, after I die... xx

Feed me

going thru people's feed is funny, to me. Kid, kid, naked pic, lunch, kid, video. I did not know Perez Hilton had two children?!? He is a great dad and on his feed, I found... well let's just say... I am not too old or ugly to be on the internet! xx #omg

Book signing/ Dean McDermott

When I first learned of Dean's book signing at the Grove, I immediately called my daughter. Of course she was busy that day and I thought things through. Because of transportation issues I decided I really could not afford it. Tori would probably be there, maybe the kids, maybe not. I have a theory that if I get really ready, Tori could cancel. That has happened. So, I usually get 90% ready. I would be happy to see just Dean, but the whole family would be great! Then the Guncles were coming, with their kids!!! Would have been perfect. Beyond perfect! One of those things. I sent out a money txt , SOS! TORI! ...money came in that night! I cried! As the event got bigger and bigger (Mehi, too) I did txt my daughter and say....I wish I could see Tori...no answer. That's another post. I could call this post... My Shakespearean Tragedy. ox #MyGoodSide #MethodActor #REality #totebags #sos #joy #love #pain #tears #takeTwo #DDD #myLoveIsForever #T&D #kisskids xxxx

#sitsBlogging inspired me...

I have thought of writing this post, wondering if it's too silly. So, a lil tongue in cheek and a lil true. Here goes. So the kids are off from school on vacation! The first week is great. No driving, Family time,bonding. It's great. By the second or third week you might need some alone time. This works for me. You tell the kids,tomorrow we are going to clean. Say it over and over. We are going to bed early and we are going to clean, tomorrow...all for one! Tell them over n over to get a good night's sleep. So of course, what happens? They stay up late and sleep in. That's ok, its part if the plan. You go into kitchen calling their names, splash around a bit. That's it! Alone time. Might not work for all families but it works for mine! Lol #tip #sitsBlogging

Jesus bubbles...

I had a friend who prayed bubbles over her kids...now i do too! #JesusBubbles 

#Singlemom #tips

give #support and #love ... Make sure they know you are not criticizing, just being helpful.  Maybe because its meme's b'day month, it got me thinking?  Make cookie bars for quick snacking. Add to  pantry and make a couple recipes.  Buy Bisquick.  Get kids cooking! Don't forget the #praise...xx   #family #love #book  #singlemom  #Christmas

Whitney xx

I didn't think I would be so affected by Whitney's death. It must be the music that makes the pain cut thru u like a knife. I did dance class to that album.......or i got divorced during that song. Maybe it was the sudden, shocking death that unnerves us all. As next time, it could be....? Or the fact that I had to tell my kids of their dad's sudden, shocking death at age 45. Twenty years later, the pain, the music, all comes back to you. xx

Random Reality xx

Watched Hook Line and Sisters. Hard working family, commercial fishing. I was curious to see their way of life. Not sure why anyone would live in Alaska, guess someone has to. Dont get me wrong they have my REspect. The most interesting part to me is Memry's name, still working on it. America's Supernanny is great, but i think she overestimated the Sheckle quads. Hard and crazy to watch as she nearly wipes out four cute kids and two perfectly good lesbians. No mat, chair or designated area........just a random space on a wall. I think they should be in separate corners, with less words, being used, but im no Supernanny. xx

Suddenly Surrounded...........

by famous people! The kid next door is famous! He is in the LMAOROF videos. Not sure of the name but u get it! He is the one in the orange back pack..He had fans all over the world. Everyone knows him by that back pack. Brilliant marketing on his part. I didnt even know he could dance? xx

Do I love you? xx

Yes i do! I live for you. I help you raise your kid. I do your dishes. I record for you. I pray for you day and night. I watched Real World for nine seasons to be close to you. I let you vent. i take the blame. I even let you be a lil mean to me. After all, you cant help it you are a Murphy lol . Yes i love you and i promised you seven more years. Unless you get married first. Ill be your wing man. I wait in the wings for you............ xx

Theresa and the Trike xx

It was 1975 and my husband took me to meet his family. All of his brothers and their wives and kids. There was a bunch of lil ones and only one tricycle. All of a sudden, a fight broke out. Not between the kids, but the adults. There was yelling and screaming and some tears. Next thing i knew my husband went into the bathroom and shaved off his moustache! Not sure why........he was at his limit, could not take anymore. When things calmed down someone said...... we are always mean to the new wife ....at the time it was Deni. Next it will be Susan, someone in the crowd yelled. NO it's not, said my husband........no one will be mean to Susan, we live in CA. OH John.........Susan was treated worst of all........xx

What 911 meant to me xx

It meant that other kids lost their dads too! Some lost their moms and parents lost their kids. 911 meant to me that i could not just cry for my kids and feel bad for my kids. I had to feel badly for all children who lost their parents that day. It's been 19 yrs for us. If i had one wish, in this whole world, it would be for my kids to have their dad ..... and maybe if i wish really hard.... all children, everywhere! xx

Hell Hole! xx

My daughter recently told me that her sister referred to our home as a hell hole. I was very offended, as that was my family and home. But yet i have to be honest and say yes we were beat. Maybe i should have protected my children and got out sooner but i wanted them to have a father. I was a battered wife . The kids got spankings. That was decades ago. Times have changed and so has parenting. I remember when our oldest became a tween my husband said she is too big to spank any more. I learned to live with him by doing what he said. When he said sit down and shut up i did. It was survival. I gave my kids a great life filled with love and special birthdays. But i have to say im sorry now for the violence! xx

Never say Never!

I usually don't support marriages and careers where people were left and hurt. I dont do Brangie, J-lo and Marc or Julia Roberts. I do watch Tori and Dean's reality show, (Oxygen) however and I have come to love and support them. WHY? Because they proved to me they are really in love, because Dean is so supportive of Tori. Because the kids are so cute! Because you can never say never. xx

Jon and Kate disgrace!

r u k m? Bring 8 kids into the world and throw in the towel? Are you kidding me? I blame Kate 100%. That's why one person shouldn't be the boss. When it hits the fan......they only have themselves to blame. I am truly heartbroken for the children they deserved so much more than they got. Seems like when Kate got the crazy hair cut it scrambled her brain! We (tlc) created a monster, but the ingredients were there from the start. A camera guy for E calls Kate's hair the back side of a chicken.....lol maybe that's why she has become a total complete bird brain. xx