I have been watching Aviva Drescher on RHONY. Aviva lost her foot in a childhood accident.  She speaks of her accident as though a meteor fell from the sky.  She calls it a freak accident.  I call it a lot of bad choices.  Why did she spend the night out at six years old?  Why didnt the parents there, keep her safe?  Why did she sneek out and not listen?  No wonder she can't make a decision or take a risk.  She screwed up at six! Of course i am coming from a completely different place.  My dad didn't let me sleep over any where until i was a teenager. I am not sure why...but he didnt  like the idea.  I guess he wanted to keep me safe and close by.  I just don't understand how you can send your kid to a farm where the security and safety were in question?  xx