How is it going? ...

assess your relationship! How is it going? Any red flags? Any lies or disappointments? Do you need to clear things up? Communicate! Communication is key! #assess #warningSigns #lies

mad mommy not! xx

so #excited to be working with echo the mad mommy. I am also working on a nick name. 😉 echo asked me if my blog had a nick name? Is that new I asked? My mind raced...i have a pen name,ministers name, hash tags,sayings, things i'm known for...but can't think of a Nic name. 😁😃 #TigerLily #SWM #RE #CPG #DDD #SASA #Twitter @Vine ox

Why it's so ...

disgusting!  You are a semi big strong construction worker.  You built the Disney buildings off the 170 freeway. You hang 38 stories off a building, by a strap.  You carry steel. So what do you do when you get here?  Abuse me.  Verbal abuse...im sick of it.  Im at the point where I hate u back and hope u die. I know why people snap and kill. You are the biggest hypocrite in the world.  The sink is clogged and you don't take out the trash.  You withhold food from me while u guzzle ur beer.  5 trips to the liquor store and only one sober, and one we took you. The other three drunk.............I don't want u here.  I want you gone. I wish I pray if there is a God plz help me.  I repent and I rejoice I regret loving the wrong people.  Plz give me another chance.  I never loved once since my robbery and #betrayal.  I did learn my lesson.  Plz give me another chance!  Without him.  He moved in on a lie.  Drank heavily and lost his mind in January. He hopes to drink himself to death and im not planning on watching.  PS  I hate u so much I almost forget to hate evalina...almost.....xx  #faith

When to get out...

of an abusive relationship. I got out eight years ago. Jennifer Schipsi wasn't so lucky. I often wonder if my timing was right? It never, is. Why did Jennifer stay those last few months? He owed her money and she wanted it. How did she forgive him for spitting in her eye? Maybe he begged her to stay. Make him look good for family and friends. Funny, she died the day of his last class for domestic violence. Not funny, ha ha. Like he didn't need her any more. Class is over, you are dismissed. xx

Domestic Abuse Totes! xx

New line of Totes ........to mark my seven years out of domestic violence and Rihanna's one year out! Also, Eminem's new video on MTV....what do you think? xx

Domestic Violence

It's been one year since Chris and Rihanna. It's been six years for me. That's when i got out of my domestic abusive relationship, due to alcohol. I got 3 generations out and lost it all. I could have/should have waited till i had a secure income. The problem with that is in the type of relationship you are in. Once the fight is over you move on to the honeymoon phase. You then get lulled into thinking...it's going to be ok, till the next fight happens. I got out quickly and without much thought. I worked and prayed everyday since that night and hope it will be ok in the end. There probably isnt a good time to ever get out. Getting out with your life is what is most important. This wasnt my first bad relationship but it will be the last! xx

Domestic Abuse.....

How do you know you are a victim of domestic abuse? When the scarf you get at xmas disappoints you. Leaving you to think.....is this all i get after all i've been through? xx

Sympathy...

My deepest sympathy for the Hudson family. As a survivor of domestic abuse, i was shocked to hear it happen to this family. I guess it can happen to any family, im so sorry it happened to them. My prayers and love are with them, today and always. xx