The many mysteries of Kate

Kate says ...dont call me wife, but she calls Jon husband. Kate says you are not my daddy, but calls him daddy when she needs something. If she is such a germ a phobe, why does she throw a dirty diaper at Jen, the producer? Why does she pick aaden's nose and wipe it on his shirt? Why does she clip his nails as he eats his cereal? Why was Mady punished at Crayola and Collin wasnt at Gymboree? If she is a nurse, why so clueless on domestic abuse and other issues. Her thinking is so out dated, she hasnt evolved yet. Im not waiting around until she does. xx